Creating Positive Circumstances

Why do we find it so hard to create positive circumstances, a positive
future in our life? One reason is we all have the tendency to spend most of
our time in the past, reliving and replaying our memories. Look back on
your average day and you may find that more than 3/4ths of your time is
spent in the past (a lot of times without you realizing it). Not only do we
try to relive the past, but we also attempt to change it! We attempt the
impossible and, in so doing, *we live in very small cycles where tomorrow
tends to turn out similar to yesterday, and then we wonder why we do not
have the power to change our lives. It feels like we do not have the
will-power, we do not have the ability to change the circumstances in our
lives, our destiny.*

The past cannot be relived; it cannot be changed. The past is like a
cupboard of old files.  When you arrive at work every day, do you step into
such a cupboard and spend the day there?  The past is a great resource for
learning and sometimes, a resource for useful information, but it is not a
place to live.  We can build on the old, but we cannot rewrite it. *The
future is the result of what we think, feel and do today. If today is the
same as yesterday (because of constantly thinking about yesterday) then
tomorrow will look and feel like yesterday and in this way we feel we are
stuck in a web and we get frustrated. *We need to let go of the past if we
want the future to shape up positively, different from yesterday, which is
negative at times! The past is past. Drop it and keep dropping it.