Are You Dependent On The Look Of The Other?

We have to trust that, being ourselves, we will be well-received and loved
by the world. If we are here, why have we been incarnated on Earth? To
satisfy the look of the other or to bring what is unique and exceptional in
us? We all have two eyes, a nose and a mouth but no face is the same. We are
all a being of conscious energy, a soul, but each one has a colour, an art,
a creativity and something different to contribute. Let us trust in
ourselves and use our talents to bring our difference.

You can be your best friend. Imagine that someone accompanies you in your
life, values everything that you do and finds it to be great: what you do,
what you say; you are the best; extraordinary; a shining being; a star.

Now imagine that you have that person next to you day and night. How do you
feel? On top form and you are fine. This happens in relationships. When
someone falls in love with you, they practically only think about you; they
ring you, they send you text messages, maybe they write you letters or
emails. You feel unique, special and loved. But this does not last forever
and, nowadays, it lasts less and less. The difficulty is that if you depend
on the look of the other to feel fine, sometimes you will be fine if the
person looking at you does it well, but if not, you won't be fine.

How do you look at yourself? This unconditional friend that loves you so
much and that supports you is what you have inside. You can be your best
friend. This gives you security and trust. If someone else likes you or
doesn't like you and criticizes you, you won't collapse within because to be
fine you do not depend on the look of the other.